Three Consent Monkeys
A collection of resources. You might say this isn't steampulp, but it is. Steampulp is about doing, getting out there, making a diffence. See something, do something.
Say no
I'm only putting a couple here as, honestly, I think society already puts enough burden on the Sayer. There are tonnes of resources. We need to focus on the other two monkeys.
See no
See someone obviously uncomfortable? A friend of yours keeps doing things "as a joke", and you're sure it's not? Surely there's something you can do. Good news, there is!
- MATE bystander program - Disclosure: I've attended this training and it's great.
- Bystander effect {More}
- How to Perform an Intervention
- Should you intervene if you witness a sexual assault?
- Your Role in Preventing Sexual Assault
- Assault on the Subway: What Can a Bystander Do?
- Five Ways to De-escalate a Conflict
- How to De-Escalate Conflict in Any Situation
Hear no
Interestingly, I was stumped trying to find resources in "how to hear no", "what to do when told no". My wife had to rephrase it as "accepting rejection" and the possibilities flooded in.
- How to Accept Rejection
- 5 Ways Mentally Strong People Deal With Rejection
- How to Accept Rejection and Deal with the Pain?
- How to accept rejection: why failure can be the first step towards success
- 7 Effective Ways to Deal with Rejection in Relationships
I'd like to add more to this. Let me know.